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Holy Grounds

What spiritual practices keep apostle Barbara Carter grounded and connected to God? Tune in as Barb shares a little about her life and what practices she implements as part of her discipleship.

Host: Robin Linkhart
Guest: Barbara Carter

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[inaudible].

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Welcome to the project science podcast.

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This podcast explores the unique spiritual and theological gifts community of Christ offers for today's world.

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Hello and welcome to project Zion podcast.

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This is your host Robyn Lynn cart and today is another episode in our Holy ground series where we discuss spirituality, spiritual practices and how spirituality connects with faith in the everyday aspects of life in today's world.

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Today our guest is apostle Barbara L.

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Carter.

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Barbara was ordained as an apostle and member of the council of 12 apostles at the 2013 world conference.

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She is assigned to the Southeast USA mission field, which includes the following mission centers, brush Creek, Kentucky, Indiana, Western Ohio, bountiful, South, East Florida, and South central.

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She is also the apostle for the inter national youth forum and spectacular events which are major youth events sponsored by community of Christ world church.

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Additionally, she serves as the community of Christ ecumenical and interfaith officer where she represents community of Christ on the governing board of the national council of churches and serves as the treasure at the end, the CC executive table.

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Welcome Barb.

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We're so glad to have you with us today.

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Thanks Robin.

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It's good to be here.

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Barb, we need you to tell us a little bit more about yourself, your family, and how you came to be a member of community of Christ.

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Well, it goes way back.

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Um, I believe I am a fourth or fifth generation community of Christ.

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My great grandparents helped start a congregation in Hamburg, Iowa, which is the Southwest corner of Iowa.

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And, uh, they, I think that was in the 1860s when that congregation was started.

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Then in the late 1880s, um, their family boarded a rail train, shared a car with another family and migrated to the Willamette Valley of Oregon and then just kept going and homesteaded on the coast of Oregon in Lincoln County.

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So, um, so that's where the family began and that just continued.

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Uh, my grandmother, uh, Luella Cockins twos, she raised her family in the church.

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Uh, she would write back to world headquarters and ask for the Sunday school material and so they would receive it.

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She would send her children sometimes, not all the time to the Methodist church in the morning.

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And then when they came back, they would have lunch and then they would have community of Christ Sunday school.

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Uh, so she raised her children even though there wasn't a presence of the church there.

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That is awesome.

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Yeah.

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So that's kind of where my, my beginnings came from, um, was from that deep faith that they had at that time.

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Um, I was baptized at reunion, a family camp when I was eight years old, uh, confirmed in my home congregation, um, raised in a family that was very devoted to church.

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My father was pastor for 26 years.

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And the only priesthood, I think for about 18 of those 26 years.

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So if the church was open, we were there.

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So how many people were in your congregation?

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I would say it fluctuated.

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So this was a congregation on the coast of Oregon, a town of about 4,500, uh, basically a logging and tourism town.

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Um, so on Sundays there would be maybe 15, and it was primarily my aunts and my family.

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I am the youngest grandchild on that side of the family.

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So many of my cousins who came to church when I was real little, you know, by time I was in my teen years, they were long gone.

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So about about 15 people from the district would come in and, um, be guest speakers and it was always fun to have them there.

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Uh, and they always enjoyed coming to the coast, you know, for a day or for the weekend.

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Uh, then there were times when families would move into Lincoln city church members and they would be a part of our family for, you know, three or four or five years until you know, they would move out.

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Uh, so I would say around 15, 20.

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So you were in this tiny little congregation

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from the time you were born up through your teen years and going to college.

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Yeah.

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So tell us a little bit more about your faith journey.

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As you recall, learning about the church, learning about Jesus and how that kind of evolved and you grew from childhood to young adults and beyond to now.

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We just kind of want to take that journey with you.

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Sure.

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So, well,

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I grew up with, with faith, with community of Christ.

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It was our LDS and then being a major aspect of our lives.

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You know, my dad, I said my dad was pastor.

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So you know, we were always, um, engaged in the church and that was just a part of our life.

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So, so I believe I grew up being taught the stories of Jesus.

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I grew up being taught about and believing in, um, a God who was always present, always there, always available.

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Um, I grew up understanding that, uh, that I was loved unconditionally by God.

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No matter what I did, no matter what I could do, would do that.

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God's love was always there for me.

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And I have a really powerful testimony of that.

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So being raised in this really small congregation, when we could read, we started doing the Sunday school warships.

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And so I think I was probably about 10 years old, uh, when I had a group of friends who told me that I was going to hell.

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And it was because I attended the wrong church.

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So I believed in the wrong God.

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And that was very disruptive for me.

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It was hurtful.

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Um, and um, so that was happening in my life the same time I was assigned to do a Sunday school morning worship.

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And so I had the books that my parents, you know, had kept for us.

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One was conversations with God.

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If some of you want to go to your churches library, you will probably find a copy of that in there.

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And books like that would have a scripture, a story and sometimes even a little prayer.

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So it was like instant Sunday school worship, you know, in the Palm of your hand.

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Anyway, I couldn't find the story that I liked or the prayer that I liked or the scripture that I liked.

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And I had the books sitting by my bedside table when I went to sleep on Saturday night the night before.

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And, um, sometime in the middle of the night I wrote on the paper that I had sitting there, I the Lord God call you out of love, not out of fear.

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So this was when I was like about 10 years old.

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Wow.

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And that spoke to me in regards to the relationship with the friends I had who told me that I needed to be afraid cause I was going to L a that shaped me in a huge way.

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Um, I still have that paper, you know, in my childhood Bible.

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Um, you know, so there's obviously a mystical part of me, um, that I don't know why.

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Well, I do know why, you know, it was God speaking to me and saying, I'm claiming you now.

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And that's, that is what began that foundation that I know that God's love is always there for me and that at times I just not need to be concerned about other things.

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So that shaped me and the opportunities that I had growing up in a small congregation along with my parents who, you know, always made sure that we had room and were present for those opportunities to experience the faith community outside of our family.

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So outside of that small congregation, um, shaped me and made me aware of a larger community that was the, that was more than who we were.

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Um, my aunts taught me Sunday school.

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Uh, so, uh, you know, I was framed by them and impacted by them.

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I wa I found, uh, an old quarterly, which was the, the Sunday school resources when I was growing up and I found an old one in inside of it.

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It had a really teeny tiny writing on a little teeny tiny piece of paper.

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And it was a prayer that my aunt Lila had written.

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And it was a prayer for that, that Sunday school lesson.

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And for those who were in it, and you know, there could have been another person I had, um, a cousin that was my age that attended some times.

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Um, but not all the time.

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So it could have been a prayer for both of us, but it was for the class.

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And I'm just very aware of the dedication that my aunts had.

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You know, they prepared a lesson for me every Sunday.

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And so I kind of feel like there was this cloud of witnesses that shaped me and formed me and then, you know, sent me out.

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Um, cause after I graduated from college at, you know, I never went back and lived in Lincoln city.

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So it's like they, they could Coon to me, they prepared me, they sent me out.

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That is an awesome experience

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and how precious to have that.

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I think sometimes when we think about our small community of Christ congregations, we don't recognize that there can be this deep intentionality resident in, in just a small group of people who envelops their youth, their children, and youth and young adults in ways that have amazing impact and nurture in the life of that young person.

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So here you are, and then you're, uh, you're in high school and you're graduating.

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So tell us what happened after that.

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Uh, let's see.

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I went to Grayson college, uh, straight straight from high school.

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And uh, while I was there I majored in psychology and everybody's thinking, what do you do with a degree in psychology?

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It's a really good question.

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Um, and while I was at Graceland bent, Charlie Carter, who later became my husband and we, it, we began a venture, um, of moving across the United States several times as he took positions with the church.

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And then I began taking positions within the church.

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So before, um, you take us more deeply into your role with the church in your expanding, um, role with the church, where you engaged in campus ministries at all, like at Graceland college or Graceland university.

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And for our listeners who don't know,

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no, that is the community of Christ sponsored affiliate, um, university in the Mon Iowa.

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Yeah, I was in my second year, so my sophomore year at Grayson, I was elected to be the chaplain for my house, which was solid, a sisterhood of love and honor.

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So the dormitories has all these different, what we call houses and the wing of the dormitory.

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So you were Sala and then you became a chaplain.

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I became the chaplain for my sophomore year, and actually that's how I met Charlie because he was the chaplain for our brother house, a gah Bay.

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Wow.

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And um, yeah, after that, that was all at own, you know, it was done.

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Okay.

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So now you and Charlie are married and Charlie is engaged in ministry with the church as an employed minister?

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Yes.

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He was a, um, an executive minister, uh, working in the Santa Rosa area of California.

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So what year would this be?

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That would be 79 to, I think we left in 81 or 82.

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Okay.

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So we're getting into a really important time in the life of the church in regards to the role of[inaudible] all

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women.

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So take us into that and how things unfold for

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you.

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Yeah.

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So, um, gosh, um, you know, Charlie and I worked pretty much as a team.

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I did have outside employment.

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I began working for a bank and was doing training, uh, for, um, uh, a large bank.

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And, uh, during our spare time, you know, we, we were engaged with the youth group and if anybody from risk management is listening to this, we may or may not at one time squeeze 13 youth into our Toyota Corolla.

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Um, anyway, so we were deeply engaged with youth and um, engaged with, uh, the women's group, which I tried to get involved in, but it, it was kinda difficult.

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They were like 40 years older than I was.

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Um, but I tried[inaudible] it was interesting.

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Yeah.

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Again, good time.

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Um, San Francisco or Santa Rosa was a part of the San Francisco Bay steak at that time.

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The steak had a great group of young adults and while we were at the extreme Northern end of the steak area, uh, Charlie and I were able to participate in activities with those young adults and that was very enriching.

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In fact, we, we have really good relationships with some of those, uh, friends that we made during that time, even now.

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So very, very formational, very supportive.

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Um, for the most part, you were in that area when world conference 1984 happened.

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No.

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Okay.

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So what happened between then and the ducks place you are?

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Yeah.

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So, um, when world comments, 1984 happened, uh, Charlie and I were living in Wichita, Kansas.

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Um, I was, uh, working for a bank, but I was also getting my master's in counseling and the week of world conference, 1984, I was preparing to, um, take my orals and so I did not attend conference and I don't believe Charlie did either.

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I believe, uh, neither of us went to conference, which I could be wrong about that.

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Charlie may have gone, I was studying, I wasn't paying attention to what he was doing.

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He would take my end too.

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That's right.

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That's right.

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I should have asked him about that before.

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And so when, when the resolution was passed in 1984 that opened to the way for women to be ordained.

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I, I will, I will fully admit that I was kinda wrapped up in my schooling at that point and I was in a congregation that was a, um, a very cohesive mix of people who were supportive of women in leadership roles and people who were not quite as comfortable with it, but you know, once in a while that's okay.

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And in fact, I think it was in 1982, it could have been 83, uh, during an 11 o'clock service, I gave a, they called it a talk, you know, so basically I gave a sermon, but it was called a talk and there was no, um, ne there, there wasn't any negative reaction to that happening.

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So looking back on it, I think I was kind of in a safer congregation there.

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There were some congregations around who struggled a little bit, um, but even today, they're still still very active and strong congregations.

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Um, so in some ways I think I was a little bit protected from some of, um, the reaction that we felt across the church after, uh, section one 56.

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So the doctrine covenants was included, uh, or approved.

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Right.

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So, um, as this is happening at world conference, and of course this is way before cell phones and internet.

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Yeah.

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Where are you and Charlie aware that this was going on?

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Yeah, yeah.

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We knew that it was coming before the conference.

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Well, no, we didn't.

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We, we thought it would be coming before the conference.

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Um, I believe his mother called us.

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She was there, you know, and Charlie could have been there.

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I wish my memory was better about this.

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Um, but you know, we soon, we soon knew, and neither Charlie or I had any issues with this at all.

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In fact, uh, we, we were supportive of women in all aspects of ministry.

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Um, shortly after that we moved up to Lawrence, Kansas for a couple of years.

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And the congregation there was very supportive.

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Uh, there were some calls that were being presented to women there and Lawrence has just on the East side of the Kansas city, West side of the Kansas city area.

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And so it was very close to, um, some other reactions.

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Um, and I, I felt like this little congregation was very insulated in some ways about that.

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After that we moved back to Oregon.

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And so this would've been in 86 that we moved to Oregon.

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And, um, it was then that I was called to the priesthood.

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Charlie was the pastor.

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And so the call came through the regional administrator and was sent to me in a letter.

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Um, it wasn't presented in person.

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And so that was kind of interesting.

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It's not, it wasn't what I had expected a call, how a call would be presented, but I understood because of the lines of, of the administrative lines, that that's the way it was.

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The pastor would not be permitted to process a call for a member of his family.

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And, um, and the, the letter then came advising Charlie and he actually presented the call to yes.

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Yeah, yeah.

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But it was officially communicated through that letter.

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That's right.

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It was authorized through that letter, which is very different than the usual call.

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Absolutely.

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Yeah.

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And then[inaudible] I don't know why the missions or the district president wasn't involved with it.

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I don't know.

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That's interesting.

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Yeah.

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However, my call was then considered at the district level and the district president presented my call, um, and it was voted on by the district so that I was ordained in 1989.

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And, uh, my daughter, uh, had been born in 88 so she was about 14, 15 months old when I was ordained.

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My arm was in a sling, um, because I had fallen kind of out of an Apple tree and left my arm up in there after I fell.

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But anyway, I dislocated my shoulder, um, during that time.

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But it was, it was a very powerful experience.

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I knew this call was coming when, when we were living in Lawrence, one Saturday, Charlie and I went out to our reserve area that has a fire tower and fire towers in Kansas are towers that are, I don't know what, may be 40 feet high and you climb up them and there's a platform and they use them to spot wildfires because in the, in the fall and in the fall of the year, the grass is dry.

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And if a thunderstorm comes through, enlightening touches the ground, it can start a fire.

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And sometimes people will be up there watching for those fires so that they can see them sooner and get to them to put them out.

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So anyway, so we were up on this fire tower and we'd been talking about our future and what it meant and where was God calling us to be?

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Where did we feel our giftedness would be usable, valuable, you know, in the kingdom of God and in the church.

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And we had been praying about it together and you know, then we were just kind of spending some quiet.

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I'm up there.

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And I remember having, you know, standing at a railing and having my eyes closed and I had been praying and when I woke up there was just this very calm, a sense of peace over me.

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And I looked down on the railing and somebody had etched in the wood, the word Oregon.

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Oh wow.

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You know, we'll, of course I jumped on that in a nanosecond.

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It's like, see Charlie, it's a sign we need to move back to Oregon.

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Kind of whatever we did.

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But I remember also feeling, I didn't feel like, yeah, Barbara, you're going to be called to the priesthood.

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That wasn't a part of it, but it was the sense of assurance that my faith walk was where it needed to be and um, and to go West, my daughter go West, right.

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Moved to Oregon.

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So that's what we did.

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That's awesome.

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Yeah.

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So you are first call to the office of elder and ordain.

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We know that now you serve in the council of 12 apostles.

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So just give us kind of a high level over view of how your ministry unfolds from the time of your first ordination to now.

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Yeah, so I'm served as an elder in Salem, uh, for a few more years.

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And then we, uh, we began this constant move, you know, following Charlie, working for the church and, uh, we moved to South Carolina.

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Um, South Carolina was a difficult place for me.

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Um, I went there as an elder.

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Um, I went there as a stay at home mother, uh, with a two and a half year old.

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Uh, the first two and a half years of Chelsea's life, Charlie was a stay at home dad.

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So I find myself all the way across the country from my family.

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I am at home alone with the two and a half year old.

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And, um, I don't know anybody.

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I don't have any friends.

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Uh, I will say I spent more time in timeout than my two and a half year old daughter did.

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It was a hard transition.

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However, it was in that congregation that I think my ministry began to blossom and to be used in, in new ways.

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I began to stretch myself.

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I began to stretch myself, um, in a particular way.

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There was, um, a woman that I met at the park, you know, parks on Thursday mornings are kind of subcultures.

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This is a subculture of, of people who are stay at home parents and you know, there's day 10 o'clock, you go to the park and you'd go to the swings, you know, and stuff.

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Well, anyway, I found myself in this subculture and I'm a woman by the name of Kathy approached me and we began what I call the long dance.

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We were close friends for the four years that we lived down there.

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And during that time, Kathy was very inquisitive about my faith journey, my walk with God.

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She asked a lot of questions.

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And, uh, we spent hours on the phone.

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I had white cabinets in that house.

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And so when I was on the phone with Cathy, I was always washing white cabinets.

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So in my mind I had this visual of exploring, uh, what scriptures mean and where they lead us and how do they speak us today.

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And in my mind I'm washing or wiping down white cabinets when that happens.

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Um, but I learned a lot from that.

00:27:44.131 --> 00:27:50.099
I Douglas Hall I think wrote, um, a book called professing the faith.

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And for me, those years were a time where I was called to profess my faith in a one on one situation and my faith grew and it took root.

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Um, cause I believe for me, when I profess God becomes a step closer to me, it's one thing for me to contemplate and read.

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It's another thing for me then to speak and profess.

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And I kind of believe that if I'm not engaged in that kind of an activity, if I'm not professing faith that my faith begins or my faith or my awareness of God begins to a pullback because it's in that act of professing that I continue to grow and learn more.

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I think it's because it involves another person.

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Yeah.

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You know, and you get that, that energy in that feedback.

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So it was a very powerful time for me.

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Um, it was also then that I was asked by the church to become a volunteer regional stewardship commissioner, which would be the equivalent of a regional Bishop today.

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And, um, I said yes, and 18 months later, um, I was asked to go to work for the church as a stewardship commissioner.

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Then I was ordained a Bishop or high priest mission.

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And then you went, there she go.

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Yeah.

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And then 2011, you were called to the council of 12 apostles and served as a designate for a couple of years and actually worked with the USA in the journey

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to the national conference, which brings us to being fully inclusive for LGBTQ in the USA community of Christ.

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And then you were also officially ordained at that 2013 conference.

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Right?

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Right.

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This is really a rich, uh, adventure of faith and journey.

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Hearing your story, Barb.

00:30:06.279 --> 00:30:07.420
Thank you so much.

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You bet.

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So that gives us a really good backdrop to kind of understand who you are and where you come from and a sense of your relationship with God and your deep commitment to discipleship and ministry.

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How did you first learn about or discover spiritual practices?

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So I grew up learning to pray, um, learning to study, talked about having that, that foundation.

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I'm also learned to discuss primarily that was at youth camps.

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You know, they would put us in groups and we would discuss, um, a biblical story or a scripture.

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And so I grew up kind of learning how to do that.

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I also, I spend a lot of time on the ocean.

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Our house was four blocks from the beach and just wanted to let the listeners know that this is not a warm Caribbean beach.

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We're talking about the waters 55 degrees and it's often windy and a little chilly down there.

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But that was my beach and I, I'll, I'll can claim it.

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I will claim it today, anytime.

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Uh, but I would spend a lot of time walking down on the beach and there's a, I don't know.

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Well, there's rocks that are right in the middle of the beach, you know, and sometimes you can't get to them cause the tide comes up around them and sometimes it's like they're sitting in the middle of the sand and the tide is far away.

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Um, and this rock is, uh, has two sections.

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So if you look at it from the side, it almost looks like a map of the Americas.

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You know, like there's a big section and then you go into the connecting and then there's another big section and right in the middle of that connecting part, um, it's like there's a naturally made chair and that chair faces out into the water.

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Now you have to kind of look around the other pile of, of stone in front of you.

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But it faced out into the water.

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That place, um, became a very, very important place for me.

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Um, I contemplated a lot of relationships.

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Um, and to be completely honest and not look too spiritual, that's when I come to plated what a relationship with certain boys would be like if they were to ask me out.

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Um, but it was also a time of prayer and closeness to God.

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Um, I, I can't think of it for me any way to be closer to God than to be on the beach with the waves crashing around me.

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And it began there.

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And so it was on that place that I would sit and I would pray, I would ponder.

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Um, and that's where I think my spiritual formation, I didn't call it that, but that's where it began to stir.

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And I remember, uh, saying lots of times to my parents, I just need to go to the beach, you know?

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And most of the time they would say, go, you know, go to the beach.

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You know, and it's, it's, it's where I did my work.

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So in hindsight, I look back and I go, Oh my gosh, that's where my spiritual formation, now I put that language on it.

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Then it was just like, I need to go beat with God.

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I need, I need to go sit.

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Um, there was one time that I was sitting out there and I must have been dealing with a lot because I became unaware of the tide and the tide had come in and the, the water, uh, the Pacific ocean on the coast there is about 55 degrees and I had to jump into the water now, not waist high or anything, but it was, it was close to my knees.

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I had to jump into the water to get up so that I get off that rock before the high tide came in.

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So for me, that was really kind of losing, um, an awareness of what was happening around me.

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So I must've been in pretty deep contemplation to lose awareness of that.

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I knew the dangers of the water and I would not have set out there, uh, past the time when I knew it was safe to get off that rock.

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But I did at that point and I got off safely, of course, but I had to get wet and cold.

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Yeah.

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One more thing about that.

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About 10 years ago, uh, my daughter Chelsea found a picture of that rock and she painted a picture of that cause she has heard me talk about that.

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That's where my spiritual formation began so that that pitcher, that watercolor is hanging in my office in the temple now.

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So it continues to be that spot that I go to, whether it's actually sitting on the rock or you know, contemplating the, the, the watercolor in front of me.

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That's beautiful.

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As you're talking, I can just, in my mind's

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eye and the next day

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time I walk into your office, I will go and find that so I can look at it and have a specific accurate mental picture of that.

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As you talk about spiritual practices, Barbie, you alluded to the fact that you have language for that now and we know in the life of community of Christ, our own awareness as a people, as a denomination has broadened and deepened.

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How has your culture and context impacted your understanding of spirituality and spiritual practices?

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I think the one thing that has shaped it the most is by naming them.

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Um, you know, we have contemplative prayer, we have elected Divina, body prayers, singing, prayers, breathing prayers.

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Um, we, we give names to things that we may have always been doing,

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but[inaudible]

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but we just called it prayer or contemplation, but now we name it.

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And I think that that has changed how I look at it.

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Um, I think in some ways it causes me to be more intentional of the different ways of prayer.

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Uh, because of that I'm also influenced, uh, more by others.

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Now, you know, with the internet and, uh, the speed of information and the speed of sharing, um, comes, uh, an availability that I didn't have growing up to.

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Uh, the ancient writers.

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Um, you know, Julian of Norwich, um, um, uh, somebody of hippo, like say was it st Augustine, um, who pulled that one out of the brain.

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Um, and then to today, some, some people who really have an influence on me would be Jan Richardson.

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Uh, so, um, they have really influenced me and helped me to shape and maybe even, um, not maybe and have helped me, uh, pull more and expand more in my own personal prayer life and in my collective

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for life with, with others.

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What spiritual practice do you use to best connect with the divine, um, in more recent time in your life and, and why do you think that is a best way for you or, or a good way for you to connect?

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God?

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So my go to is meditation and mindfulness.

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Um, I use Headspace.

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Um, is that an app?

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It is a map.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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And um, it has, it has really helped not in being mindful, not in meditation, but it has helped me be diligent in the practice of it.

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Um, and I am a firm believer that when I engage in that my days I will even label them as more Holy than days that I'm not than I, that I don't, I, I'm much more centered.

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I like myself better, which usually means that I'd like others better to.

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Um, so that mindfulness and that meditation time and there are times that I am running late and I will grab five minutes and then there are other times that I extend it and I allow myself 15 to 20.

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Um, but finding that time to be engaged in that is well, it's life-giving.

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And so it's a practice that, that I try and do daily.

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It sounds really deeply connected with how your, you were allowing your self, your mind, your thoughts to deepen when you set in your, your rock chair.

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And we know that now you live in the middle of the USA with no ocean close by, but it just sounds like you have been able to connect with that early practice and, um, enrich and deepen and take it with you on the go with, with or without your beloved ocean and rock chair.

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Yeah.

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You know, hadn't thought about that Robin, but I think you're right.

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Um,

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yeah, so it goes back to an early practice and it's just finding a different way of

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I've engaging with it and the intentionality of,

00:40:33.389 --> 00:40:33.659
yeah,

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we would really love it.

00:40:35.411 --> 00:40:43.809
Barbara, you could kind of walk us through a spiritual practice that you might recommend for our listeners to try.

00:40:43.811 --> 00:41:02.800
And we know some folks listening today may already have spiritual practices incorporated into their daily life and others may be hearing about spiritual practices for the first time and people all in between those two ends of the spectrum.

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Yeah.

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So, um, so I have a practice that I call holding others in love.

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And this came out of a very, um, trying time for me, a personal time for me when, um, I was dealing with hard stuff, I was dealing with disagreements among people and I remember praying about it standing at my window.

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And, um, what I heard God say to me, not in an audible voice, but what I felt God say to me was, um, you need to love them.

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And my response was, God, there's not enough in me to love them.

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And the response was then hold them in my love.

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And so I've cut my hands, you know, and I reduced them down to about two inches.

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And I did take pleasure in that.

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Um, and I held them in my hands and I pictured God's love swirling around them and through them.

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And, uh, just so you know, for me, God's love is kind of an iridescent blue.

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Um, so anyway, so out of that, um, came a very powerful practice for me.

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Um, and I, I call it holding in God's love.

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And I have two sets of porcelain hands that aren't any bigger than two inches long, maybe an inch and a half wide.

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And, um, I have little, uh, jewels or gems or little rocks.

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Um, I have a Tahitian Pearl sitting in the one in my office.

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Um, and daily, um, I will dumped the, the, the stones, uh, jewels in my hand and I will think of people who need God's love surrounding them and not that, that I don't love them, not that I'm having a problem with them, but who I know and I'm aware of.

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And sometimes I'm just dumped the whole bunch in the hand and say, God, you know, you know, way more than I because I don't have enough room in that hand to cover all of the pain.

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And, um, so I have a set of that on my dresser at home and I have a set in the office and sometime during the day I will sit down and remember people and I hold them in God's love.

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I don't know what's happening in their lives, but either they're resting on my heart or I'm aware that tough times, or they're hurt or they're in pain and I placed them in God's God's love.

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God's love is healing for me.

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And that's a practice that, well, it has saved relationships.

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It has saved me.

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Um, and so anyway, it's one that I do on a regular, regular basis.

00:44:24.829 --> 00:44:31.829
The other thing is, is at one time I bought, um, I think 10 sets of those hands.

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Oh, wow.

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And so there have been times when I've been able to leave those hands with somebody else, um, so that they, um, might find a way into that practice of when, when, when I know that another person needs God's love, that I can place them in that in a prayerful, um, not that that placing has magical.

00:45:04.260 --> 00:45:12.090
It's, it's being intentional about thinking about a person and holding them in, in the presence of God and in God's love.

00:45:12.510 --> 00:45:13.409
I love that.

00:45:13.411 --> 00:45:32.010
I have never heard a practice describe that's, that's just like that one of the things that comes to my mind as you're talking about these hands and about God's love is that hands are a sign in symbol and many of the sacraments of the church.

00:45:32.070 --> 00:45:43.710
And what a precious embodied way to have a spiritual practice and on behalf of others that that is really, really beautiful.

00:45:44.650 --> 00:45:48.960
Another area that I find that this is really important for his forgiveness.

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You know, if I'm working on a relationship where I have done something that I have offended, um, and I need, um, I need to be authentic about forgiveness, not just saying, Oh yeah, yeah, it's fine.

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We're okay, but to be authentic, and I'm going to say pure because for me pure means that forgiveness is complete.

00:46:16.909 --> 00:46:18.269
There's, there's not residual.

00:46:19.230 --> 00:46:22.289
Um, this practice is about forgiving.

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And if the first step is to admit that right now I don't love them, but I'll hold them in God's love until I can.

00:46:31.019 --> 00:46:31.019
Yes.

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Um, it, it facilitates forgiveness and I think, um, I know that we need to learn how to forgive, um, and to uphold and love each other.

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Even when there are differences, we can still forgive and love each other.

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Um, powerful, powerful stuff.

00:46:50.849 --> 00:46:52.889
Thank you so much for sharing that.

00:46:54.280 --> 00:47:07.949
Barbara, are there any tips that you would share to help someone who might be either trying this practice for the first time or maybe is just new to the whole concept of spiritual practices in general?

00:47:08.820 --> 00:47:12.389
Yeah, I think, um, the first thing is to not be afraid.

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There are no mistakes.

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You know, when you're trying to interact with God, uh, you go with what works for you and um, be open to that.

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So obviously I think the first spiritual practice that you know, we, um, we cut our teeth on is prayer.

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And whether that's your, when you're sitting with another person and they are praying or when you yourself lay down at night and put your head on the pillow and you say a prayer and maybe it's even just a partial prayer because you fall asleep before the end, that that's where you begin.

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And that's good.

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And there, there isn't a ranking of less than or greater than every step along the way is good.

00:48:04.849 --> 00:48:16.579
So if you're just starting, you know, start with, with a prayer or start with finding a prayer that's written that speaks to you and pray that prayer.

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I have a book it's written by and the name just went out the window.

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Richard Foster.

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And um, I got it when I first started working for the church and it's a book of prayers and I usually carry that with me wherever I go because I will admit there are times that I just don't have a prayer in me.

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So I look in that book and find one that I can pray.

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So sometimes if you don't feel that either you're worthy to pray or that it's just too painful, or the words just aren't there, then find another one or open your scriptures and go to the beatitudes.

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Um, but find a prayer, you know, and open up that line with God.

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Um, even if you've yet to believe that that's even a possible thing, uh, take a step, um, in believing that would be, that would be my first thing.

00:49:23.389 --> 00:49:24.469
That's a great tip.

00:49:25.219 --> 00:49:29.960
You, I'm touched on this a little bit earlier in our conversation.

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How does doing a spiritual practice or perhaps the ones that you've described with us change you or change your day, uh, and how, how might that have an impact on other people who try to incorporate intentionally spiritual practices in their buyers?

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For me, it opens up myself to others.

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It, it takes me outside of myself and makes me aware.

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It helps me to see other people.

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Um, and I think that does, does the same with all of us.

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Um, we don't, we don't live in isolation and we're connected.

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So I think that's[inaudible] that's how prayer can change us.

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It, it just makes us available.

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Yeah.

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We've talked about individual practices.

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Barb, can you share a little with us about the differences between individual and group practices and maybe how you find them meaningful in different ways?

00:50:37.760 --> 00:50:42.590
So individual practices is usually something that I view as doing myself.

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It may be in a group but we all separate and go, you know, out to our own tree or something.

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But, but we're all in a group, but it's an individual work that we're doing, we're just doing into vigil work at the same time.

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Actually I think that could both be considered individual and group work and group work for me is when you are combining your energy together, um, for a certain purpose.

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So if a, if a congregation or, um, a study group or a family is in the middle of discernment, they're trying to make some decisions to me that would be a group prayer, a group coming together.

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Um, both, both have deep places in the faith movement in, in the church and in our faith lives.

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Uh, personally, I'm way more comfortable with individual.

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In fact sometimes, okay, don't tell anybody else, but there have been times that I have excused myself from a room, um, because we were going to do a group pair time.

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And it's not that I don't support that and believe in that, but sometimes there are things going on with me that I feel too vulnerable if I, um, if, if I participate in a group activity, I am not a hider.

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Meaning if there's something going on, all you have to do is look at my eyes and you know, you can, you can see what's going on inside of Barbara.

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And so if, if I'm dealing with something and I'm not ready, uh, for others to see that I'm in conflict or whatever, then I will, I will very gently and tried to be stealth-like as I extract myself from the group.

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So for me, individual prayer is much more comfortable.

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However, in and working as a group, I mean, it can bring people together.

00:52:57.929 --> 00:53:05.849
The council of 12 has had some powerful, um, times when we've been worshiping together.

00:53:05.851 --> 00:53:16.500
That prayer has just really, really brought us together and opened us up, uh, to receive, uh, God's blessings and awareness.

00:53:17.760 --> 00:53:17.760
Mmm.

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Yeah.

00:53:21.389 --> 00:53:26.440
I'm kinda like you, I, I'm an introvert by nature and um, group

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doing spiritual practices as a group can feel really scary sometimes because like you say, there is a certain level of vulnerability that's associated with that.

00:53:38.559 --> 00:53:47.500
I want to share for just a minute because when you talked about the council of 12 having powerful times together, that includes spiritual practice.

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There's something we did a few years ago which was really comfortable because it was an individual practice at the same time.

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It was a community practice or a group practice and that was when we went to the roof of the temple and mocked the labyrinth together.

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And so we each were on the labyrinth at the same time and we entered at different intervals.

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So we were at different places on the labyrinth and it was an individual practice and we were walking that.

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But because we were all on it at the same time, there was this sense of community and even without a single word to one another.

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And we're passing on the different channels and routes of the labyrinth, pausing for meditation at different times, just depending on the individual.

00:54:40.059 --> 00:54:42.280
Um, brushing hands with one another.

00:54:42.820 --> 00:54:58.179
Um, touching shoulders as we passed and I'm getting tingles just, you know, talking about it is there was this deep power of God's spirit working with us, um, with that, uh, word ever exchanged.

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And then each one exiting, um, the labyrinth as their time came to leave and we all silently walked back to the counselor room.

00:55:08.230 --> 00:55:21.250
And, and again, with that a word ever being spoken, just a sense of knowing that we had all communed with one another and God on that was really super powerful.

00:55:21.690 --> 00:55:22.840
It was a very special time.

00:55:22.840 --> 00:55:29.170
I actually was one of the first ones out and I took pictures of us

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there.

00:55:30.630 --> 00:55:45.960
Um, yeah, so that was a very special, that was Barb, you serve in a field in one nation, it's in the USA, but the field that you serve is very diverse, um, throughout.

00:55:45.960 --> 00:56:00.539
So as you serve among very diverse people, how do these folks integrate spiritual practices into their lives and their life together as a congregation?

00:56:02.119 --> 00:56:18.949
This is a huge question because you're right, they're so diverse and have completely different backgrounds with each other and dwelling in the word has found a, a deep place in, in this field.

00:56:19.849 --> 00:56:36.050
Um, it is not uncommon, um, for some to have that as a part of their weekly worship and whether it's in their classroom or whether it's part of the Sunday morning service, uh, they use that a lot.

00:56:36.440 --> 00:56:47.840
The wish, the mission prayer, um, has found its way into the lives of individuals and conversations and the mission prayer is kind of in its second form right now.

00:56:47.869 --> 00:57:01.219
There was one that came out, I don't know, in the late middle nineties, in a resource that was produced by the 70, um, in the, in the missionary toolkit, I think it was.

00:57:02.269 --> 00:57:08.630
Um, and so that mission prayer has been around for a while, um, or the two versions.

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And so I think that has found its way extensively into the life of individuals and congregations.

00:57:17.900 --> 00:57:30.619
I don't know that you could go anywhere in my field that they would not know or be using the mission prayer, which I think is really good because number one, prayer is what's on our mind.

00:57:31.369 --> 00:57:50.869
And so saying the mission prayer puts witnessing and being aware of others around us who were, who are seeking a relationship with God, the mission, prayer places that on our minds so that we are attuned and much more aware dwelling of the word I already said that is popular.

00:57:51.739 --> 00:57:59.449
Um, prayer continues to be foundational for those involved individually or with a group.

00:58:00.679 --> 00:58:07.340
Um, and as you spoke, labyrinths are, are finding way into the mission center.

00:58:07.820 --> 00:58:18.289
Uh, several of the campgrounds now have labyrinths and some congregations have congregational retreats and they are using labyrinths as a part of that.

00:58:18.670 --> 00:58:23.719
I find it exciting because our kids are growing up with labyrinths now.

00:58:25.340 --> 00:58:35.750
Um, you know, and it's not just one that has a little ball and you have two knobs and you're kind of trying to control where the Bob ball goes and you want it to get to that hole.

00:58:35.989 --> 00:58:37.489
It's not that kind of elaborate.

00:58:37.909 --> 00:58:46.909
So I'm very excited about that, uh, that they are growing up knowing about that practice, that spiritual practice

00:58:48.340 --> 00:58:49.119
that is awesome.

00:58:49.121 --> 00:59:05.380
As you talk about this, that I reflect back and realize that spiritual practices as you know, even having the concept of spiritual practices and names for different ones in the community of Christ journey is relatively new.

00:59:05.440 --> 00:59:22.199
And as you're talking I'm realizing, wow, it's like our kids are growing up in that awareness and, uh, we even have a project signed podcast interview with someone who has, um, developed spiritual practices that are kid friendly and

00:59:22.590 --> 00:59:24.420
which is awesome, I think.

00:59:24.480 --> 00:59:24.809
Yeah.

00:59:26.789 --> 00:59:32.519
So Barbara, is there anything that you would like to share or talk about that I have not asked you about today?

00:59:33.300 --> 00:59:39.420
Yeah, I think that people are engaging in spiritual practices but don't necessarily name it as such.

00:59:40.679 --> 01:00:01.289
Um, it, the, their practices that they and learned on their own maybe or, or, um, it's a latent memory someplace in their brain from when they were a child or something and it finds its way back in, but they don't name it as such a Leonard sweet.

01:00:02.010 --> 01:00:13.739
Um, I'm a writer from probably like the early two thousands, wrote a book, uh, learning to dance the soul self, soul salsa, which I kinda like the name.

01:00:14.579 --> 01:00:19.530
Um, in that he talks about a sacramental icing, the ordinary.

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And he talks about, you know, if you have, let's say a dish that was your grandmothers and you use that dish, well when you use it, when you're preparing to use it, you might be rinsing it off or washing it first.

01:00:36.210 --> 01:01:16.409
You think about that person and their influence on your life or if it's a contemporary person, you know, and it's a dish they gave you or a vase that they gave you or um, a piece of jewelry or a scarf or they that those things become sacraments, meaning they become a sacrament because we are touching with another person and recognizing their influence on us, recognizing how much we cherish them and, um, and honoring that relationship.

01:01:17.250 --> 01:01:20.219
Um, that's a huge practice for me.

01:01:20.909 --> 01:01:28.590
Um, I have, I have many things from my mother and um, I deeply miss my mother.

01:01:29.610 --> 01:01:48.300
Um, so in those times, um, I will mix missing my mother with a little bit of house cleaning, meaning I will go and pull, she liked the little Bluebird, so I have a couple of her blue birds and sometimes all it takes is I go and get the blue birds and I washed that.

01:01:49.079 --> 01:01:49.079
Yeah.

01:01:49.110 --> 01:01:52.710
You know, and I dry them and I put them back in their place.

01:01:53.219 --> 01:01:56.550
Uh, sometimes I go through my recipe box.

01:01:56.550 --> 01:01:56.880
Yes.

01:01:56.880 --> 01:02:01.650
I still have a recipe box and I look for the ones that are handwritten.

01:02:02.340 --> 01:02:04.829
You know, and I think about my mother.

01:02:04.980 --> 01:02:10.949
It's not a time of sadness, it's a time of connecting.

01:02:11.849 --> 01:02:21.820
Um, you know, in a way with what she gifted me and how a part of her finds expression through me.

01:02:22.960 --> 01:02:27.280
Um, so, you know, Sacramento icing, the ordinary, the ordinary things.

01:02:28.210 --> 01:02:49.389
Um, one time when, well, it was after 2000, no, nine, 11, um, we had just moved to California and I found myself on the freeway systems a lot and I felt very disconnected from everybody.

01:02:49.750 --> 01:02:56.199
And so I started praying for the cars around me because we didn't move very fast.

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And, you know, there would be times that I would travel, uh, is surrounded by this, the same four cars for maybe 10, 15 minutes.

01:03:06.639 --> 01:03:11.380
And that gave me lots of time to pray for the individuals in those cars.

01:03:11.980 --> 01:03:29.079
And in a very weird way, it made me feel connected at a time, um, in, in my life, the because of actions within our country, I was feeling very disconnected and it helped me.

01:03:29.320 --> 01:03:49.269
So it's, um, it's sacramentalized the ordinary when you're in your car and you see somebody else, um, you know, if you're questioning your life, just putting your seatbelt on, you know, the act of putting your seat belt on and clicking in is saying, my life is valuable.

01:03:49.960 --> 01:03:54.969
Um, Sacramento realizing that action in saying, my life has value.

01:03:55.300 --> 01:03:57.730
I'm doing this because I value my life.

01:03:58.420 --> 01:04:04.510
Uh, when I went to Grayson, I was afraid that, um, I was concerned.

01:04:04.510 --> 01:04:05.230
I wasn't afraid.

01:04:05.231 --> 01:04:12.159
I was concerned that my relationship with God might, um, become less.

01:04:12.760 --> 01:04:31.090
And so I would put a rubber band on my ID and a rubber band on the door knob so that when I touched those things, I would remember just to say a prayer of things to God that I know you're with me, you know, and here we go.

01:04:31.210 --> 01:04:32.260
You know, kind of thing.

01:04:32.469 --> 01:04:43.119
So touching the ordinary and when you do make it a sacrament, uh, to remember how much we are connected and how much God connects us.

01:04:43.659 --> 01:04:44.860
I love that.

01:04:45.489 --> 01:04:48.039
I will never look at rubber bands the same again.

01:04:48.219 --> 01:04:48.699
You're welcome.

01:04:49.780 --> 01:04:56.170
This has been great time to share with you today, Barb, and thank you so much for being with us.

01:04:56.949 --> 01:04:57.489
You're welcome.

01:04:57.490 --> 01:04:57.940
Thank you.

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And a very special thanks to all of our listeners to hear more from people who actively practice spirituality in their lives.

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Look for Holy grounds in the categories list on our website to hear more from our guests, Barbara, check out episode exploring

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restoration, heritage and community of Christ distinctives.

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And also episode one 38 percolating on faith on the topic of ecumenism featuring Barb as a special guest with regulars, Tony and Charmaine chavala Smith.

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Today.

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Barb mentioned the mission prayer.

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I want to leave those words with you.

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God.

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Where will your spirit lead today?

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Help me be fully awake and ready to respond.

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Grant me courage to risk something new and become a blessing of your love and peace.

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This is your host Robyn Lynn kart, and you are listening to project Zion podcast.

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